Actually, I'm not fine… blog

Category: welcome post

  • Welcome to: Actually, I’m NOT fine.

    Have you ever felt like there’s something wrong with you? Like you’re too much or not enough, or that no matter what you do, you’ll never be the right version of yourself for anyone else? Me too. That’s the reason this blog exists. On paper, I’m a mother, a wife, a friend, a cousin, a…

  • Posting on my birthday month

    … but i couldn’t wait so i decided to start it now. There’s something about a birthday month (one month early) that feels like more than just another page on the calendar. For me, it’s a chance to pause, to reflect on where I’ve been, and to open the door to what comes next. This…

  • Why a pseudonym?

    I chose to write under a pseudonym because I’ll be sharing sensitive, personal, and deeply emotional parts of my life. I want to protect myself and my peace from people in my past who contributed to the generational cycles I will sometimes talk about. My story, my background, and my experiences are mine to tell;…

  • Rules for my blog.

    Hi, it’s me, B. Honest. Before we get too deep into stories, feelings, and real conversations, I need to be clear about a few important things. Please read this so we’re all on the same page. I am not a professional. Everything you read here is based on my personal experiences, thoughts, opinions, and emotions.…

  • I’d like to introduce myself

    Hello. Nice to meet you, I’m B. Honest, Clever name right? Because that’s exactly what i plan to do here: be honest. About life, love, loss, growth, and all the messy and beautiful, complicated in-betweens that we all face. This blog is an open space for connection, conversation, and reflection. Sometimes I’ll share pieces of…